SOLARIS BLOG

Feeling Stuck?

happy new year 2020

If you’re feeling stuck in your current situation or you’re noticing that your history is repeating, we have the tendency to ask “but why?”

It’s tricky in these instances and I think we’ve all been there at one time another in our lives. And we can run through every single step that got us here, but you know what?, it’s rare you would have done anything differently knowing what you knew at the time. 

And maybe you did choose to ignore those red flags but there’s no sense in dwelling in the past. It’s time to move forward because we are on the brink of transforming in a huge way both personally and collectively. 

This week with the sun in gate 24, the gate of Rationalization we are able to use our minds to rise above our circumstances and see the bigger picture. Notice those habits or belief systems that have kept us (seemingly) stuck. But then go deeper and see that you are exactly where you should be and that being present with your situation and seeing the gifts that are there for you is the best medicine. 

You can do more for yourself and the world by learning to empower yourself from where you are now than by beating yourself up for mistakes you think you made in the past. 

Love, strength, self-trust and learning healthy boundary setting are your best allies to help you move forward. Sending you all of this and more!

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